What Does the Executive Coaching Process Actually Look Like?
- Jasmine @evolvexplore
- Jan 20, 2024
- 2 min read
Updated: 7 hours ago
Executive coaching isn’t a formula. It’s a partnership — one that creates space for reflective growth, sharper leadership, and deeper alignment between values and action. While each coaching relationship is tailored to the individual, there are shared stages in the process. This guide outlines what to expect — not as a fixed roadmap, but as a rhythm of learning, insight, and development.
🔹 1. Initial Connection & Contracting
Every coaching journey begins with conversation — a discovery call or initial meeting where we explore context, goals, and fit. From there, we co-create a coaching agreement that outlines:
Confidentiality and boundaries
Roles and expectations
Focus areas and intended outcomes
Session format and rhythm
This phase is about clarity and consent. Coaching only works when there’s trust and mutual understanding.
🔹 2. Goal Setting & Insight Gathering
We begin with purposeful reflection. What matters most to you right now? Where are the tensions, transitions, or ambitions showing up in your work? Together, we may use tools like:
Values-based frameworks
Leadership self-assessments
360 feedback or stakeholder input (if useful)
This is less about diagnosis and more about deepening awareness — so your goals are grounded, not generic.
🔹 3. Action Planning & Focus
Based on your insights, we shape a development plan — one that fits your style, pace, and context. This might include:
Strategic focus areas (e.g. visibility, influence, systemic thinking)
Relational patterns to examine
Skills to strengthen or behaviours to shift
It’s a flexible framework, not a checklist. You remain in the driving seat.
🔹 4. Regular Coaching Conversations
Coaching sessions typically happen every 2–4 weeks. These are reflective, spacious conversations — designed to help you:
Make sense of experiences
Challenge assumptions
Rehearse new approaches
Navigate complexity with more confidence
The coaching space becomes your thinking partner — objective, compassionate, and attuned to your leadership growth.
🔹 5. Reflection, Integration & Feedback
We return often to questions like:
What’s shifting for you?
What are you noticing — in yourself, in others, in the system?
Where do you need more space, support, or structure?
As your context evolves, so does the coaching. It’s a dynamic relationship built around your learning.
🔹 6. Closure & Moving Forward
Coaching doesn’t end with a grand finale — but with reflection and intention. Together, we revisit your progress, name what’s changed, and explore how to sustain your growth beyond the sessions.
Some leaders choose a follow-up phase or pause for now, knowing the door remains open.
Final Thought
Executive coaching is not a performance tool — it’s a thought partnership. One designed to help you navigate ambiguity, make sense of complexity, and lead with clarity in a way that aligns with who you are and the systems you work within.
If you’re seeking a calm, culturally intelligent space to grow your leadership — coaching might be the step that brings everything into focus.
Jasmine Gill EMCC-Accredited Executive & Leadership Coach www.evolvexplore.com